There are different factors that guarantee good parenting, but we would be looking at a rare factor that is very important. I will ask you, how many parents do you know that have a very free communication skill with their children that make it possible for them to be able to know secrets of their children and are directly informed by their children themselves. If this is achieved successfully by parents, then the tendency to curtail bad behavior in children, and the ability to influence the children are being made easy. If parents have created a negative atmosphere in the home, making the children to stay away, and keep to themselves, it will take some considerable time to attain to this state and with patience, but it is needed in every home, this does not mean that the needed strict times that parent employ to maintain order will be compromised.
A PROVEN WAY TO ESTABLISH FRIENDLINESS BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN.
Let us look at ways in which parent could accomplish this in their homes. Firstly, there should be forgiving between parents and children in case there is a problem. Due to the kind of character children portray in this time, which is directly caused by parents in general cases due to the passive forms of discipline they practice now a days, hence, parents should look for an indirect means of settling dispute in order to aid this to be established. After this, for a good start, parents should let their children know that they desire good communication skills with them through a playful means that still makes the children know that they are being genuine with what they say, this helps, because, the children will be indirectly made open to accept and try out what their parents are up to. Parents are encouraged to comment friendly comments on their children day to day activities, and to become inquisitive in a friendly way on the different activities the children take part in and to show interest in them also. Further more, sure, these children will experience down fall, pain, etc along the way, here, the parents should show extra ordinary support here and try to get inward on the causes which are likely to be secrets. They should understand the phase in which the children are in right there, in terms of age and way of thinking and give right judgments with a friendly atmosphere, unless the remedy requires a strong reproving and discipline, which is needed for ensuring the good condition of the children. With this, you should get yourself a good communication skill needed as a parent.