Tell Now And Be Free Tomorrow.

"TELL  NOW,  AND  BE  FREE  TOMORROW".

 It is crucial that one lets the past go. And much more crucial that one opens up about a past that can harm their present relationships if later found out. In so many ways, holding on to the past hurts psychologically, emotionally, physically, mentally, and in other ways. It prevents individuals from moving forward, from achieving more. The concentration of this article is to help individuals escape from the past as it relates to the future of their relationships. Many have gone into marital relationships carrying their past with them. Now, it is not merely about remembering the past, and the sufferings it brings. In a larger sense, it is about not being able to tell the present spouse, significant-other, loved ones, friends, about the past that is not settled, and that has the potency of harming the present and future relationships of the individual.

It is often true that entering into new relationships, the participants in a relationship will often demand directly or indirectly the sincerity and openness of the other person in the relationship, as they themselves strive to be open. If one individual in a relationship holds back a past that has the potential of destroying the relationship when it comes to the open, then the person hasn't done him or herself good. In the fresh start of a relationship, it is good to tell of a past one thinks could threaten the relationship later if there is any. This is very important, especially when one is heading towards a serious relationship.This will leave the other person involved to decide whether or not to stay. At the same time, this also helps individuals with a dark past to know if someone truly wants to engage in the relationship with the knowledge of their past opened.

Doing this will help prevent good relationships from being destroyed mid-way. No matter what the time the unwanted event occurred, whatever it may be, it should be told to let peace in. This will help keep and maintain your self-value, as well as the relationship.   This will also help to bring the individuals involved in such relationship closer. It will also show and help maintain openness in the relationship and much more. It should be noted that the process of opening up of the past to loved ones, spouse, significant other, etc, should be handled maturely and appropriately. If necessary, time should be given to individuals to process the truth about the past that they have learned. With time and love, it should result in a positive effect.