Achiever Mel

Great America.  One of the things I have always talked about, be it directly or indirectly is relationships. Our daily lives, and how well it goes largely depend on how we relate to things, people, situations, our believes etc. With this in mind, let's not narrow our view of the word 'Relationship' to be a word dealing with how two different genders create intimacy between themselves. America is a country held up high due to the transitions it was made to pass through. The things that had happened to it in the past that has brought it to this present is not all pleasant. It is a country that went through challenges, challenges that if we tell other countries to pass through, they will politely back away from. This challenges has or is the main factor why this country has an open access to things, secrets of success hidden to other countries. No, I am not saying that problems bring success in all areas, but some problems that occur as challenges must be dealt with in ord...

In our day to day lives, we are faced with problems, difficulties, and so many other issues. There have been different institutions established to help people with advanced and minor problems. I would like to tell you that the ability to solve problems is directly proportional to the way you see the problem and the resources you have.  Some people give up on a problem without trying at all to solve it, some try solving it with a different pattern from another person. Seven different individuals could bring seven different approach to solving one problem,  and hence get different results. The way you view a problem will determine how you will approach it. With different personalities, nature, mentality, maturity, different solutions emerge. When we deal with relationship issues, family problems, we should as individuals, try to think of solutions not as it suits our personality, because it could be harsh to the other person involved. we should bring the positive and th...

" TELL  NOW,  AND  BE  FREE  TOMORROW".   It is crucial that one lets the past go. And much more crucial that one opens up about a past that can harm their present relationships if later found out. In so many ways, holding on to the past hurts psychologically, emotionally, physically, mentally, and in other ways. It prevents individuals from moving forward, from achieving more. The concentration of this article is to help individuals escape from the past as it relates to the future of their relationships. Many have gone into marital relationships carrying their past with them. Now, it is not merely about remembering the past, and the sufferings it brings. In a larger sense, it is about not being able to tell the present spouse, significant-other, loved ones, friends, about the past that is not settled, and that has the potency of harming the present and future relationships of the individual. It is often tru...

THE EFFECTS OF SONGS ON EMOTION: Songs, food for the soul, it is capable of giving strength when weak, it is a fuel, it gives inspirations, it penetrates even to the deepest part of the heart, it brings out the raw personalities from individuals. It is capable of speaking to the mind, it keeps one going, it teaches, it has the power to cause gradual destruction to individuals, the society or the nation as a whole. What ever result is derived from a song is dependant on the kind of song that is being listened to. Songs can play a trick on emotions, making one desire or detest something or someone else the more. Songs can be a reliable source of inspiration and motivation. Gospel songs that are sourced from God usually bring the presence of God to humans. Knowing that songs are a powerful tool because they speak directly to the soul, it is only reasonable to pay extra attention to the production of songs and the choices of songs to listen to. The devil also...

IMAGINATION- THE START OF CREATION. Everything that exists today started existing in imaginations first. Imagination is the start of creation, if you have an idea, plan, dream, want, etc; it only becomes reality when it has the foundation of imagination. You see, when you imagine yourself doing what you like and you have no resources yet to get yourself to the point you are in in the state of that imagination, just calm down because that imagination is a driving force that drives you to where you can get bit by bit to the point you are in that imagination.   It is important to know that you become what you imagine and that you can improve through imaginations, using your mind(as it is the foundation for creating imaginations), you daydream, and as you do continually, it intensifies, you will find yourself pushing towards it, if not, then change your environment, friends, believes etc. POWER OF IMAGINATIONS . You should know that you are your imaginations, that is, wh...