Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Restoring a broken relationship

Restoring a broken relationship. Do you want to restore that relationship and it is proving difficult? Or you do not know how to? Or you are afraid of being rejected? Or you do not know what step to take? I am sure that by now you should have known this person very well by now, how he or she behaves, what they like, what they consider valuable, these are beautiful hints and only you can provide the answers to these puzzles, hence, why say it  is difficult. The way to solve this, Firstly, what resulted to the fight, who is involved, the reason for the fight. Generally, if you want to restore a relationship:
-          You know it doesn’t matter who is at fault, say sorry to initiate reconciliation.
-          It is good to be a good listener, say less and listen more, hence, understand their feelings, look out for their interest more.
-          Admit your own mistake.
-          Attack the problem not the person you  are trying to restore back to the relationship.
-          Cooperate with the person to bring about peace.
Specifically, in restoring relationship between people  who are dating:
-          Adding to what is stated  above, buy something that remains both of you of the beautiful relationship you both share and systematically give it to her/him through trusted third persons.
-          Have your friends  bring him/her  to a place you have arranged, a romantic setting where  you will inevitably  have contact with him/her  to initiate the  reconciliation.
-          Apologize and learn from the  mistake, and make sure it does not repeat again.
-          What kind of person is this person that you are trying to reconcile with, look in deeply on what he or she  really  likes, and what moves him or her, where he or she likes to go.
-                                  Take a step and do something like singing  or talking about him/her  publicly where you can state your  desire and acknowledging your faults, he or she must  be there or  you must make sure the person is   listening to your piece  some were.
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How to begin a successful Relationship.

To establish a relationship, you have to do a lot of findings for it to work.  These are what you should do to begin a successful relationship and maintain it. Before you can secure a successful relationship you must know the person very well, because, each person has their likes and dislikes, what have worked for someone might not work for another person. Look at these tips:
-Secretly find information about him/her like where she lives, with whom she lives etc
-Become friends with the person’s friends to get more information about him/her, but do not start asking questions about the person immediately when you have become friends with them.
- Try to find out what kind of person this is, the person’s nature likes and dislikes.
- What kind of person would this person love as a partner?
- If her kind of person is not your kind of person and you still want to pursue it, then try to be like what the person likes or you just go the way you are, hey, the person may just love you!
-First approach and appearance matters and your planned speech must suit the person in question.
-If  the person  agrees  be faithful then, if the  person does not, still be a gentle man, because  the person  may be in one already, or heart broken, give them some time, that is if they  are not in a relationship  already.
- Have the right mindset, be in a relationship because of love, nothing less, because one way or the other your intentions will be reflected in your actions which if negative may destroy the relationship.
-Do not listen to every thing other people say about your relationship, they may be up to destroying it for you.


Issue of the day: Is it right for a lady to propose to or pursue a guy for a relationship?
There is a survey showing that the number of girls, lady, woman who take lead in pursuing boys, guys, men for a relationship is rapidly increasing, is this the right order  or is it a right? Do they show the right courage?  It has been proven that this set of people do this with full determination, that is, they can go as far as whatever it will take for them to get that guy, married man, even if it is their best  friend’s  guy. Some ladies, teenagers, guys spoke about what they know.
      MELISSA.   ‘……THAT is the main reason why I do not want to stay in campus, these girls can deal with you  if you try obstructing their path, I think taking it to the school authority would help, really!
  THOMAS.  ‘……. Look, seriously, it is not a big deal, those girls make it easier for some guys over here.
 SOLINN    ‘…… well, I think they are trying to air what’s silently killing them, and if they don’t hurt any one in the process? Fine!
According to survey also,  people  have  been hurt in the process, lives have also being threatened, relationships have also being broken and some students are affected academically, now, our advise to those involved is that , if they want to save their relationship, they should irrespective of what those ladies do, they should remain faithful and handle those ladies maturely so that those ladies would not threaten the lives of innocent  ladies. What do you think about  this ladies, are their actions justified or do you think they should be dealt with in what ever way?