See a problem differently and get a different solution.
With different personalities, nature, mentality, maturity, different solutions emerge. When we deal with relationship issues, family problems, we should as individuals, try to think of solutions not as it suits our personality, because it could be harsh to the other person involved. we should bring the positive and the negative possible outcomes of the decision, and evaluate them before taking it. Don't narrow your thoughts, look at the future to come, how it will affect them, how will it portray you, is it fair, etc . Maximum care should be taken when trying to make decisions because they determine your future and in turn determine the future of your loved ones. When you make good decisions, no matter how hard it is, in the long run you will enjoy it. When you give in to quick decision making, anger influenced or even decisions due to excitement, you are more likely to regret it later on. When angry, leave the scene to calm down, do those things you know calms you before engaging in making decisions. Also, I will encourage you to involve someone that is positively minded. Someone more older than you, that knows more, because, even in the calmed state, you may favor yourself, instead of giving in to the right decision. When you are over excited, please, don't make heavy decisions, because, they are mostly irrational.
Decisions form our lives, we should take extra care before making them become reality. With this in mind, we should look at a problem with a positive mindset that shows that we are bigger than the problems. This is because we decide depending on our decision, if the problem should continue. Heads cooled with unbiased minds, scaling through will be easier. There are different approaches to solving a problem, with some taken wrongly; producing something negative. Hence, let your thoughts be guided with a positive mindset and a matured heart.